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“I never saw it coming..”
We all say these words whenever something bad happened in our life and when we’re having a hard time to accept things. I realized this is not true, I think we knew it from the very beginning, it’s just that we try to deny it from ourselves. Thinking and wishing that there would be a miracle that will fix everything we worry about. And if everything falls, we are trying to console ourselves by saying these words because we knew the truth all along.
Most of the time, when we want something badly and though we feel that something seems wrongs about it, we still wanted to go on, I don’t know why.. Maybe because we’re hoping that at the end of the day everything will be fine. Anyway, how would we know, if we wouldn’t try?.. We’ll never know the outcome of our actions unless we tried.Who knows? In every decision we make it may get us up or down. And if everything gets worse, I don’t want to regret things that happened. Once a friend told me, “we should never regret the things we’ve decided if everything goes bad, we should always remember that once in our life we’ve been happy because of that decision”

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Anonymous said…
Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go and that will always make a difference... Just think about what have you become after what happened... be glad that you turned out to be a better person.
nget, gusto ko lng may maisulat dito, pgpacenxhan mo n kung out of topic... hehehe... stress eh!
March 17, 2010 at 11:22 PM
gracie said…
ok lng, kht out of topic.. hehehe.. anyway para sakin nmn tlga yang mga sinabi mo..
March 18, 2010 at 9:22 AM
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